Skip to main content

Forums » Smalltalk » deleting

Fancie

Should I delete this account? No one replies to me and I am at the point where i am actually crying. I am not happy on here, i am sick and tired of people leaving me out. Another thing is..no one is giving me kudos, except one person.
How about no?
If you're looking for fun, and not finding it with me, why not try getting yourself out there? You may be down, but I won't count you out.

I'm sure people will come running to sing their praises soon. Don't give up~!
Rogue-Scribe

Line Out
Fancie Topic Starter

Dunedain-Ranger wrote:
Aw, dont do that. How could I ever get to know you if you draw a lint through your name?

Pleased to meet yo by the way Fancie.

Nice to meet you also. :)
Fancie Topic Starter

Xenoworlds_BEYOND wrote:
How about no?
If you're looking for fun, and not finding it with me, why not try getting yourself out there? You may be down, but I won't count you out.

I'm sure people will come running to sing their praises soon. Don't give up~!

I love your Asami character.
Work hard. Make friends and establish connections. Advertize yourself and your characters, and make a point that you hate when people flake/disappear on you/ghost/whatever you call it. That way, they know what to expect when they engage in roleplay with you.

I'm sad to hear you're not liking it here </3 This is the best online community I personally have ever had the pleasure of joining.
LakotaSiouxWarrior

Participant in the forums and interductions. It'll help you noticed. I've felt the same way but stuck it out til things got better. I like your profile. It's nice to meet you. This website is the friendliest website I've ever been on.
Suwako-chan Endorses your job soon you'll be Asami's boss and teach her the ways of the Puu(not Poo, Puu!)
Kim Site Admin

Not everyone uses the kudos system; it doesn't mean anything personally bad about you. :)

It looks like you're already meeting some nice people here. But it sounds like you may need to do a little self care to help with your emotional state as well. Maybe something here will help you too when you are feeling like crying? https://www.rprepository.com/help/mental-health-resources
Fancie wrote:
Should I delete this account? No one replies to me and I am at the point where i am actually crying. I am not happy on here, i am sick and tired of people leaving me out. Another thing is..no one is giving me kudos, except one person.

I told you in text and messages that I'm not RPing much due to preparing for surgery. I'm scheduled to go in, in 2 months, and I'm spending almost ALL my time getting my body ready for it.

You have my cell phone number, you know you can call and text me any time of day.
Fancie Topic Starter

Spook wrote:
Work hard. Make friends and establish connections. Advertize yourself and your characters, and make a point that you hate when people flake/disappear on you/ghost/whatever you call it. That way, they know what to expect when they engage in roleplay with you.

I'm sad to hear you're not liking it here </3 This is the best online community I personally have ever had the pleasure of joining.

I get shy at times. But no one has bitten me on here yet. :)
Fancie Topic Starter

Sexysultrybabe wrote:
Participant in the forums and interductions. It'll help you noticed. I've felt the same way but stuck it out til things got better. I like your profile. It's nice to meet you. This website is the friendliest website I've ever been on.

Nice to meet you.
Fancie Topic Starter

Kim wrote:
Not everyone uses the kudos system; it doesn't mean anything personally bad about you. :)

It looks like you're already meeting some nice people here. But it sounds like you may need to do a little self care to help with your emotional state as well. Maybe something here will help you too when you are feeling like crying? https://www.rprepository.com/help/mental-health-resources

Those are actually helpful. Plus, I do have insurance so I can find a therapist in my area as well.
Maiden_Alice

I can relate somewhat to what you're going through. I only have a handful of RPS going on right now. Some I've been meaning to reply to and others I'm waiting for replys. There are times when it feels like I'm either being overlooked or even just ignored. The best advice I can give is, don't let it get to you so much. Interact with the forums a bit and really put yourself out there. If there is someone you like to RP with, message them to get a story rolling.
Maiden_Alice wrote:
I can relate somewhat to what you're going through. I only have a handful of RPS going on right now. Some I've been meaning to reply to and others I'm waiting for replys. There are times when it feels like I'm either being overlooked or even just ignored. The best advice I can give is, don't let it get to you so much. Interact with the forums a bit and really put yourself out there. If there is someone you like to RP with, message them to get a story rolling.

Hehe, just like me, huh? No matter, Fancie, do you see? I totes called it~! You are sure to get noticed~
>_<
Fancie Topic Starter

Perfect and yes anyone feel free to add so we can chat or rp. See, the thing is I have anxiety..reasons not to talk about on the forum when I come online and I see someone reply or start chatting with me rl or rp ( love both equaly) it calms me down a lot. :)
rat

I hope this has reassured you that there are plenty folks here willing to get to know you now that you've put yourself out there. :) I've found that it is much more effective to take that (scary, yes) first step instead of hoping for someone else to notice you instead, especially on a site as large as this. Risk for reward.

As for kudos, I personally rarely give it out because it's hard to find the right words, and don't want some people in my friends list to feel less loved because they didn't get one when another person did, so that's worth keeping in mind too. It's really not an accurate way to measure how much people like you.

You are on: Forums » Smalltalk » deleting

Moderators: Mina, Keke, Cass, Auberon, Claine, Ilmarinen, Ben, Darth_Angelus