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The very reason why I stopped rping for a while..just died this morning at midnight.
The very reason why I couldn't answer anyone just died.
One of the reasons that I'm even alive just died.
...My dad died by the hand of leukemia, and I honestly don't even know how to feel about it. I'm- Christian, so I'm happy because he's in heaven..but I'm also just a human, and our emotions can be unpredictable at times.

Let me just put this out there:
Yes, this type of stuff will happen and probably did happen in your life, but it's no reason to just give up. Try to keep yourself happy, and if you can't, ask for help. I do hope that you get through all of your problems, though
And thank you all for reading all the way through <3
I give my condolences. Know that you can have comfort in the fact that you will see him again.
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Arcol wrote:
I give my condolences. Know that you can have comfort in the fact that you will see him again.
Yeah, thank you
I don’t know you but I saw the form and had to say something. I’m an adopted kid and I lost my first dad to brain cancer. Two years ago I lost my adoptive father to lung cancer. So I’ve lost two dads and hell, it’s gonna be a rough and long journey.. the emotions will not go away in a day, to be fair they never really go away. I just learn to work with how you feel, and after a while, what feels weird. Like your dad not being in the house, it feels normal...

How I got over their deaths is I knew they weren’t in pain anymore... they were sick and hurry, and now that they said good bye and left. I knew they were happier.

The best way too deal so too talk things out, with family and friends. Or even a councillor, you need the extra support right around now... and little things will feel bigger. Like I went back to school three days after my dad and one teacher asked ‘where was I? Partying?’, they didn’t know he had passed and it sent me into tears. Little things will hurt for a while, but your going to get stronger and better. You have a lovely Community right here if you need the help.

Best of luck and I hope this get easier too...
My condolences, honey. Just know that we love and support you and are here for you if you want to talk. ((hugs))
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Sweet_Little_Sock wrote:
I don’t know you but I saw the form and had to say something. I’m an adopted kid and I lost my first dad to brain cancer. Two years ago I lost my adoptive father to lung cancer. So I’ve lost two dads and hell, it’s gonna be a rough and long journey.. the emotions will not go away in a day, to be fair they never really go away. I just learn to work with how you feel, and after a while, what feels weird. Like your dad not being in the house, it feels normal...

How I got over their deaths is I knew they weren’t in pain anymore... they were sick and hurry, and now that they said good bye and left. I knew they were happier.

The best way too deal so too talk things out, with family and friends. Or even a councillor, you need the extra support right around now... and little things will feel bigger. Like I went back to school three days after my dad and one teacher asked ‘where was I? Partying?’, they didn’t know he had passed and it sent me into tears. Little things will hurt for a while, but your going to get stronger and better. You have a lovely Community right here if you need the help.

Best of luck and I hope this get easier too...
Thank you so much. I'm also very sorry that both your dad and adoptive father passed..it seems so rough.
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Abigail_Austin wrote:
My condolences, honey. Just know that we love and support you and are here for you if you want to talk.
thank you <3
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*gives bear hug* Deepest condolences, Alty-chan...
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HibariHaru013 wrote:
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*gives bear hug* Deepest condolences, Alty-chan...
Thank you, too <3
LakotaSiouxWarrior

Sorry for your loss 💔💔.
Imthenaysayer

Sorry for your loss
ALTY_Heave Topic Starter

Thanks to both of you
Imthenaysayer

If you need anything pm me
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Imthenaysayer wrote:
If you need anything pm me
Thank you <3

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