Aisling
Tis but a dream...
Hello, I am Aisling. I have been in an out-of-roleplay play-by-post for 20 years now. Like many, a lot has happened to me over the last few years. I am a domestic abuse survivor learning how to live life again and get back on my feet as an self-sufficient independent adult. I am definitely on the upswing thanks to a wonderful man accidentally stepping into my life at the worst time under not-so-great circumstances. But, both of us are healing together. We have a very unique relationship as neither of us speak the other's language.
Hello, I am Aisling. I have been in an out-of-roleplay play-by-post for 20 years now. Like many, a lot has happened to me over the last few years. I am a domestic abuse survivor learning how to live life again and get back on my feet as an self-sufficient independent adult. I am definitely on the upswing thanks to a wonderful man accidentally stepping into my life at the worst time under not-so-great circumstances. But, both of us are healing together. We have a very unique relationship as neither of us speak the other's language.
- я немного знаю русский
- Worldbuilder
- Character Designer
- World and Character coach for all writing
- Graphic Design, Designer and Illustrator
- Front End Developer hobbyist
- Have a cat named Pickle
- Liver of real life
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My style
I am a very detailed writer in character action, dialogue, environment, worldbuilding-accuracy, and general response/reaction to partner’s post. I actively push the plot forward, I can play NPCs with the same depth as established characters and I like stories that sit in some level of realism even if fantasy based. I prefer some level of conflict involved in the story and a general purpose or goal for characters to work towards otherwise I feel like a fish out of water flopping on the ground aimlessly...
Genres I like:
*I prefer my romances to be more of a side plot to the story as I like them to be naturally based on real chemistry between characters and never ever forced.
In general, I life plots that are not OVERLY dramatic as less is more, but contain enough dramatic elements that it is interesting and provides enough conflict for characters to thrive without writer’s block. The kind of conflict I like is more exterior, such as political or economic polarization, nobles vs. peasants, enemies stuck together, LOTR style missions, arranged marriages, beauty and the beast style – Or very introspective interpersonal conflicts that brings characters together such as healing from traumas, seeking mentors for personal growth, trying to find a way to be human or, coping with slowly becoming a monster ect
Timeframe for posts:
On Ghosting
My style
- I write 3rd person past tense
- I flex about 300 to 1200 words per post, or 3-4 large paragraphs on average.
- I will write both smut and Fade-to-Black based on my partner's desire and comfort levels. Please DM for my Smut comfort levels.
I am a very detailed writer in character action, dialogue, environment, worldbuilding-accuracy, and general response/reaction to partner’s post. I actively push the plot forward, I can play NPCs with the same depth as established characters and I like stories that sit in some level of realism even if fantasy based. I prefer some level of conflict involved in the story and a general purpose or goal for characters to work towards otherwise I feel like a fish out of water flopping on the ground aimlessly...
Genres I like:
- Adventures
- sci-fi
- low and high fantasy
- psychological thrillers
- horror
- Historical
- Romance*
*I prefer my romances to be more of a side plot to the story as I like them to be naturally based on real chemistry between characters and never ever forced.
In general, I life plots that are not OVERLY dramatic as less is more, but contain enough dramatic elements that it is interesting and provides enough conflict for characters to thrive without writer’s block. The kind of conflict I like is more exterior, such as political or economic polarization, nobles vs. peasants, enemies stuck together, LOTR style missions, arranged marriages, beauty and the beast style – Or very introspective interpersonal conflicts that brings characters together such as healing from traumas, seeking mentors for personal growth, trying to find a way to be human or, coping with slowly becoming a monster ect
Timeframe for posts:
- I literally cannot write every day and weekends are sacred to my real-life relationship. So, expect 1 post a week, maybe 2. Maybe some weeks I can do more, some less – but I try my best to communicate this.
- I am super flexible with my partners about timeframes so long as there is communication about what is going on and I will share that same respect.
On Ghosting
- I do not ghost. If I drift off the roster it is an honest mistake. I either forgot to DM you about what's going on, or it got lost in my inbox. Send me a DM and I will give you the tea.
- If you ghost me... The reality is my time is limited and there is a possibility I turned down other partners to write with you, so in a sense, there is a butterfly effect to ghosting I don't appreciate that can damage my relations with people other than the person who ghosted me. With my past history of being so poorly treated, I treat this with the same respect as a date not texting me back - you are just not that interested. And I have just barely enough self-respect to not waste time with people who do not want to spend time with me. So, I probably won't be interested in creating any new stories with you if you aren't willing to finish the first one, or communicate with me about ending it.
If there is some major life circumstance that prevents you from taking 5 mins of your time to communicate what's going on; such as a dangerous situation, being hospitalized, etc.... then, of course, I am going to be very very understanding.
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