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AuraLove

I have been RPing for over a decade, but I am just now trying to get into it after taking about a year off for some big life changes.

I am neurodivergent, struggle with certain mental illnesses, and have physical disabilities to top it all off, so I do require patience and consideration from my RP partners. I will give them the same, and I also encourage communication between myself and my RP partners when it comes to story building as well as setting healthy boundaries. I like making friends with my RP partners, but it's okay if they don't want to be friends as long as there is at least mutual respect between us.

I do appreciate updates and being informed when my RP partners decide to go on hiatus, but I will never demand those things because I know sometimes you have to prioritize RL over DMing your fellow RPers. I also try to keep my RP partners in the loop, but if I go quiet for an extended amount of time the reasons could vary from being socially burned out, to having too much to do due to unexpected circumstances, to a full blown health crisis (I tend to have at least one health crisis every year due to my autoimmune disease - and if I only have one I consider that a good year 😅).

I prefer long-term RPs that can be put down when necessary (for myself or my RP partner's wants/needs) and still be picked back up later. I understand that sometimes the inspiration dies down, and you just can't find it again, and I won't take offense to that. However, if you're the type of person who takes it personally when a RP partner goes inactive for a time and refuses to write with them again because you feel they intentionally "ghosted" you I'm afraid we won't be compatible. I personally am hiatus friendly, and if you have to go on an unexpected hiatus and don't have a chance to let me know in advance I will still be happy to write with you when you come back because I know that sometimes things happen that we can't predict or control, and I would never blame my RP partners for something they didn't even see coming.

I want to let you all know that I write in third person and present tense. This is what feels natural to me, and I won't commit to adjusting it to suit someone else's preference because I will have to reread and edit what I am writing so many times that I lose the motivation to write with anyone who expects that of me. However, if you want to write in a different tense than me I am absolutely fine with that. When it comes to the perspective you write from I am uncomfortable with the characters being referred to as "you," and "I" because it makes it feel OOC to me, and we are not our characters. I don't have a problem with people who prefer to write in first person, but I honestly don't think we would be compatible RP partners if you do.

That's okay though! Not every RPer has to be compatible with my RP style and preference to be a good RPer. RP is meant to be fun, so if you and your RP partners are having fun together you're doing it right!

With all of that said, I try my best to be friendly and respectful of every RPer I meet, so if you are thinking about reaching out there is no need to be shy! I'm sure I would love to hear from you! 😁💖

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From day one of meeting AuraLove, they've given off a very kind and compassionate vibe. I appreciate that I feel they're always going to be honest and polite with other users, which I find comforting as I feel assured they say what they mean, which reduces the chances of miscommunication in my opinion! (I could also be biased as a fellow ND person. ;))

I hope to see AuraLove around for a while to come, because I think they make a great and friendly addition to our community. Kind and understanding - Sanne

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