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Hi! 👋
For this event, I wanted to share something I love doing in RP:

I build original characters with strong emotional depth, especially characters with trauma, internal conflict, and long-term growth arcs. By no means I claim to be an expert, but it's something I enjoy making to the best of my ability to create something believable, authentic, natural, and respectful.

I don’t mean just “sad backstory.”

I mean:

- characters who contradict themselves
- characters who want two opposite things at the same time
- characters whose flaws affect their relationships
- characters who slowly change over time because of what happens to them

My process is heavily based on emotions → behavior → growth, not just aesthetics or stats.

Here are some example questions you can ask me (but you can ask anything related to OC psychology, emotional writing, character growth, etc.):

- What inspires the emotional core of one of your OCs?
- How do you decide what trauma influences a character without making it their whole personality?
- How do you balance a character being flawed without making them unlikeable?
- How do you show emotional conflict without just stating feelings?
- How do you avoid “trauma dumping” and instead create gradual emotional depth?
- What’s your favorite character arc you’ve ever written?

If you’ve ever struggled with making a character feel real instead of flat or over-dramatic, feel free to ask.
I’m happy to talk about:

- internal vs external motivation,
- portraying trauma respectfully,
- emotional contradictions,
- character growth through relationships,
- or anything else you’re curious about!

✨ Ask Me Anything. ✨
Yes, I might have a question.
First how do you differentiate feelings and emotions?
And how do you imagine that character when you write contradictory feelings and/or emotions? Do you mimic at home their expression, or maybe remember someone, or do you base on scientific theories (like DISC for example)?
I believe you to have that knowledge to write deep emotional settings, but it would be ‘fun’ to know how you write.

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