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Darkness. Legitimate darkness. If all sources of light are covered/turned off and I can hide under the blankets I'm less worried about what exists outside of my little void nest.
what do i do? Eh these days ... i just binge watched cringey christmas romance movies ... -.- which is highly unusual for me lmao
Do this weird thing where I'll pick a thread loose on specifically my left-hand sleeve and just kind of fidget/roll it between my fingers even if it starts rubbing the skin off.
I’ve got a few things I do that comfort me.

1: rp with friends and let me emotions out through my characters.

2: play my truck driving sim. Nothing like driving on a open road to forgot my troubles

3: put my headphones on and meditate listening to relaxing nature music.

4: Hang upside down on the sofa and close my eyes also helps.
Cigar smell. Especially the residual smell, more than the active smoke. I was never really influenced to the smoke.

My grandpa, dad, and best friend's dad all smoked cigars.

The smell of their cars sticks with me to this day. If I get in a car or room that smells like old cigars, i just want to curl up and go to sleep.
MFManda wrote:
Cigar smell. Especially the residual smell, more than the active smoke. I was never really influenced to the smoke.

My grandpa, dad, and best friend's dad all smoked cigars.

The smell of their cars sticks with me to this day. If I get in a car or room that smells like old cigars, i just want to curl up and go to sleep.

Yeah, sames except it was pipe tobacco. :)

Like Lanx said, headphones and one of my playlists is really comforting, but I didn't really consider it weird.
Mm, certain smells, lots of weather conditions, sitting next to someone on a bed or couch, especially if it has an interesting texture... Drinking ice water, running, cleaning off sweat (like the washcloth thing some people have mentioned here), drinking a tasty beverage. :P
The sound of train horns. I grew up semi close to train tracks, and would hear the horn go off when I was awake around three in the morning. It was oddly comforting then, and still is now.
Weird things?

Diesel fumes, low tide, and alligators. All three were constants at my permanent duty station when I was enlisted, and the smells and sights remind me of simpler times.

Not quite so weird, but strenuous physical activity. Being physically too busy and working too hard to be able to consciously think, and just turning my mind off for a while. Usually I'll wind up too knackered to think until the next morning, and my brain will do its own filing while I'm 'not looking'.
68_dare wrote:
The sound of train horns. I grew up semi close to train tracks, and would hear the horn go off when I was awake around three in the morning. It was oddly comforting then, and still is now.

Me too! Being close to trains when I’m sleeping is the best. I have a camping spot a little bit away from some tracks by a river. I always sleep so well when it comes by. I grew up in a house I could hear them all the time, I guess it subconsciously stuck
This is interesting... I like everyone's additions, the book thing I get completely. I used to do that and occasionally still do.

I'm not sure if these are weird or odd, but the smell of old spice, since it's what my SO wears, is deeply comforting.

I love putting things in my hands or mouth and just playing with them, like cherry tomatoes or Jello (in my mouth) and I like touching things, like if you've ever had a blanket that changes colors if you pet it one way or another? I embarrassingly have quite a few "fidget" toys. My favorite is a "spin" ring, it's pretty and fun.

I really dislike winter, so I find it comforting to lay under some bright lights with the heater on when I'm grumpy. (I really really love summer and spend hours sleeping in the sun)
I also enjoy sitting on the floor of a big open space, preferably a carpeted room.

I'm comforted by habits. Daily habits and lists/schedules, things being planned out in advance. I wear a lot of the same clothes in the same combination, and I have a pair of favorite shoes and a choker necklace I'm never without, otherwise I feel "naked".

I think the weirdest might be how I tend to "soothe" myself at times, which often includes hugging myself, petting my head, neck and face and playing with my hair, rubbing my arms, smoothing my sides (fixing my clothes) and sticking my hands in my armpits or pockets and rocking back and forth.
I live right by the police station and railroad tracks. Some nights all I hear are trains and police sirens.

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